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Rise Up Counselling is a therapeutic practice specializing in supporting individuals and families experiencing challenges in their parenting time, decision-making responsibilities, separation and divorce proceedings. We engage families with respect, empathy and the intimate knowledge of how to navigate the various systems they may find themselves in.
The fundamental scope of everything we do is to ensure that parents maintain a solid, healthy and nourishing relationship with their children.

We will walk side-by-side, one step at a time with families to reach their goals. Rise Up Counselling is a private practice offering in-person and virtual sessions. We welcome self and professional referrals.

Clinical Services

Support Therapy to individuals, families, parents and co-parents struggling with separation, divorce, parenting time and decision-making responsibilities as well as reunification.

Parenting & Co-parenting Coaching

An individualized approach to parenting & co-parenting support. Supporting children between homes.

Individual & Family Therapy

Therapy to individuals and families affected by trauma, divorce/separation, anger, grief and anxiety.

Providing consultations for separation/divorce

Providing needed support in family law proceedings.

Family Therapy & Reunification Therapy

Designed to heal relationships negatively affected by separation and or divorce.

Consultations

Involving Child Welfare, Voice of the Child Reports, Parenting Plans & Case Consultations

Child Welfare & Risk of Child Welfare

Providing support during family law proceedings to professionals & families involving Child Welfare.

Creating Parenting Plans

Assistance formulating parenting plans for non-court ordered parenting and co-parenting agreements.

Voice of the Child Reports

Sharing the wishes/voice of the child for family law proceedings.

Case Consultations

Assisting in high conflict situations to help move proceedings forward.

Side-By-Side
One Step at a time

Discover how Rise Up Counselling can help you or your family.

Media

The Benefits Of Working With A Therapist Through Your Divorce With Helen Yack & Gabbi Silverberg

In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with Helen Yack and Gabbi Silverberg of Rise Up Counselling about the many benefits of working with a therapist while you go through separation and divorce. Helen and Gabbi discuss how therapy and counselling can help you and your children manage the stress and anxiety of divorce. We also chat about how it can save you money in legal fees to work with a therapist too. Divorce is one of life’s most stressful events so hiring the right professionals to help you be at your best when you make some very important, life altering decisions is invaluable. This episode provides so much helpful information. You won’t want to miss it.

Gabbi Silverberg & Helen Yack: Rise Up Counselling

In this episode, our dynamic social work duo delves into crucial themes surrounding divorce dynamics. Explore the intricacies of introducing new partners to children, navigating the complexities of blending families, and rebuilding trust with your ex-spouse. Dive into discussions about managing egos during this emotional process and gain insights into divorce’s profound impact on children. Discover how every action, word, and decision shapes the lessons kids absorb, offering a compelling exploration into the profound ripple effects of divorce on family dynamics. It’s a conversation filled with practical advice, empathy, and a deep understanding of the intricate dance involved in the art of conscious uncoupling.
Divorce Party Podcast

This week on the DL: Real Life Spotlight: Children of Divorce

Guess who’s back! This week Alex and Amanda chat with their colleagues, Helen Yack and Gabbi Silverberg from RiseUp Counselling! All four women speak candidly about their personal experiences with Divorce and the impacts on the next gen – spoiler, your kids will be fine! Helen and Gabbi take us inside the minds of children whose parents are going through divorce; how they make sense of their situations, and some dos and don’ts for parents during this time.

Dirty Laundry: The Divorce Podcast

This week A&A discuss the do’s and don’t’s around telling the kids you’re getting a divorce with the brilliant Helen Yack and Gabbi Silverberg of  Rise Up Counselling.

With practical tips like where to tell them, when to tell them and how much to tell them, you don’t want to miss it.

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It is Thanksgiving weekend. 🦃

Like other holidays, parenting time is usually shared or split between parents. There might be times when you are not with your children. Therefore many different feelings may set in.

If you are not with your children this Thanksgiving, here are a few tips and suggestions to help you through this time.

🦃Celebrate Thanksgiving on another day. Just because Thanksgiving falls on a specific day doesn’t mean that’s when you have to celebrate. The kids might even love having a second Thanksgiving.

🦃Do something fun alone. Even though you may be on your own, that doesn’t mean you can’t still enjoy yourself. So don’t waste the day off feeling sorry for yourself or moping. Instead, go to a movie, binge-watch your favourite show, or volunteer somewhere.

🦃Call on your friends. If you don’t want to be alone on Thanksgiving, call your friends or family and plan on making dinner with them.

🦃Start new thanksgiving traditions. You may have to pack up an old tradition and put it away, but what better time to start a new one? Or at least plan for something. It can be a big, grand adventure, like a trip, or something minor, like a movie date. Talk about what you want to do next Thanksgiving, and maybe plan for a new family holiday ritual.

Whatever you decide, the most important thing is to talk to your kids. There are changes in your family, and validating your children’s feelings is essential.

You may not feel like dwelling on the positive, but it’s better than the alternative. So take care of yourself, hug your kids and eat a yummy meal—what a great opportunity to take this time to appreciate the good things in your life.

#thanksgiving #riseupcounselling #highconflict #divorce #therapy #childrenofdivorce #navigatingdivorce #selfcare
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Going through a separation can be incredibly tough. It’s normal to feel a range of emotions. Grieving the end of a relationship is natural, as you mourn not only the loss of the partnership but also the future you had envisioned. Remember, it’s okay to feel overwhelmed and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist. Healing takes time, so be patient with yourself and know that you are not alone in your grief. With time and self-care, you will be able to move forward and create a new chapter in your life.

#riseupcounselling #divorcerecovery #griefsupport #divorcegrief #socialwork #divorcetherapy #healingjourney #separationgrief
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Discernment counselling is a specialized approach designed for couples or individuals who are uncertain about the future of their relationship. It’s particularly beneficial for couples where one partner is leaning towards separation or divorce while the other wants to work on the relationship. Here’s a breakdown of what it entails and its benefits:

What It Involves:

➡️Exploration of Perspectives: Each partner gets a chance to express their feelings, concerns, and desires regarding the relationship.
➡️Understanding Options: The therapists helps the couple explore three paths: moving toward divorce, working on the relationship, or taking a time-out to reflect.
➡️Time-Limited Sessions: Discernment counselling typically consists of a few sessions (often 1-5), focusing on clarity rather than long-term therapy.
➡️Decisional Clarity: The aim is to help both partners gain clarity about their feelings and options, leading to a more informed decision about the relationship’s future.

Benefits:
❤️Gain Clarity: Understand your feelings and options better.
❤️Reduce Ambiguity: Eliminate confusion about your relationship’s future.
❤️Improve Communication: Open dialogue in a safe space.
❤️Focused Decision-Making: Prioritize clarity over deeper issues.
❤️Opportunity for Change: For those wanting to rekindle the relationship.
❤️Supportive Environment: Share thoughts without judgment.

Overall, discernment counselling can be a valuable tool for couples navigating the complex emotions surrounding their relationship, helping them move toward a resolution that feels right for both partners.

Reach out to Rise Up Counselling for more information.

#riseupcounselling #discernmentcounselling #therapy #couplescounselling #separation #divorce
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At every intake we ask our clients “what do you bring to the table?” This is usually a moment where clients pause and self reflect. It allows them to focus on their attitudes, behaviours, and approaches that contribute to the conflict.

In the midst of a high-conflict divorce, it’s easy to focus on the other person’s actions. But real growth and change begins when we take ownership of our own behaviours. Here are some good examples of exploring what your bring to the table:

✅Your Communication Style: Are you contributing to open, respectful dialogue, or are you escalating the situation with hurtful language or defensiveness?
✅Your Emotional Regulation: Do you bring calmness, patience, and empathy to the table, or are you reacting with anger and frustration?
✅Problem-Solving Abilities: Are you offering constructive solutions or approaches to move past the conflict, or are you focused on winning or being right?
✅Willingness to Compromise: Are you bringing flexibility and a readiness to find common ground, or are you rigid and stuck in your position?

What steps can you take today to show up differently? Small shifts can lead to healthier communication and a better path forward. Remember, you can’t control the other person’s actions, but you can always control your response.

#CoParenting #DivorceSupport #HighConflictDivorce #Accountability #PersonalGrowth #ParentingThroughDivorce #riseupcounselling #conflict #ConflictResolution #lifeduringdivorce #parallelparenting
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Music is therapy! Have you heard this song? It’s amazing. “A Lot More Free” by Max McNown explores the emotional journey of moving on from a past relationship and finding personal growth and freedom in the process.

The lyrics of the chorus are:
‘Cause I’m a little bit hurt but a lot more free.
I ain’t saying that you never took a toll on me
For what it’s worth, I can finally see.
That I’m a little bit hurt but a lot more free.
Yeah, I’m a little bit hurt but a lot more free.’

This song is a great reminder that divorce can leave us feeling hurt, but it can also be the path to reclaiming our freedom and peace. Letting go of the past might hurt, but it also opens up space for a new beginning. While healing from the pain takes time, there’s also strength in embracing the freedom that comes with moving forward.

#HealingJourney #DivorceRecovery #NewBeginnings #StrengthInFreedom #maxmcnown #alotmorefree #riseupcounselling #divorce #separation #divorcesupport #divorcecoaching #divorcecoaching #divorcetherapy #lifeafterdivorce #lifeduringdivorce
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Therapy can be hard work, and for many, there’s a stigma attached to seeking help. But let’s clear up a few truths about therapy:

🎯 There is no instant ‘aha’ moment. Unlike the movies, where a single breakthrough changes everything, real-life therapy is a journey of small, gradual progress. It’s about ongoing growth, not a one-time fix.

🎯 You don’t need to be ‘fixed’—because you’re not broken. Therapy isn’t about ‘curing’ you. It’s about uncovering your strengths, building new skills, and learning how to face life’s challenges head-on. Success in therapy means you’re better equipped to handle life’s ups and downs—not that you’re “fixed.”

🎯 Therapists listen more than they advise. Therapy is a relationship. While your therapist may guide you toward solutions, they won’t give you direct answers or tell you what to do. The real magic happens between sessions as you apply what you’ve learned.

🎯 Therapy doesn’t last forever.
You don’t have to be in therapy for life (unless you want to!). From the start, you and your therapist will set goals together and continuously assess your progress. When you reach those goals, it’s time to celebrate your growth and move forward!

Curious if therapy might be right for you? Reach out to Rise Up Counselling at www.riseupcounselling.com and let’s explore this journey together.

#riseupcounselling #therapy #therapyhelps #seperationsupport #divorcesupport #lifeafterdivorce #lifeduringdivorce #highconflictdivorce #highconflict #childrenofdivorce
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Struggling to communicate with your ex?

Here are 5 tips to keep things calm and productive:

🪷Stay Calm: Take a moment before responding to avoid emotional reactions.
🪷Keep it Business-Like: Stay polite and professional.
🪷Stick to Facts: Focus on the issue, not the past.
🪷Set Boundaries: Politely limit conversations to necessary topics.
🪷Ignore Drama: Don’t respond to personal

Keep it short, focused, and solution-oriented! #CoParenting #HealthyCommunication #boundaries #riseupcounselling #biff #lifeafterdivorce
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Some days are tougher than others, but even on those hard days, the most important thing you can do is simply put one foot in front of the other. Progress may feel slow, but every step you take is a step toward healing, growth, and change. Be gentle with yourself. Moving forward, no matter the pace, is a victory. Keep going.

#KeepGoing #OneStepAtATime #ProgressNotPerfection #MentalHealthJourney #Resilience #riseupcounselling #divorce #divorcesupport #seperationsupport #lifeafterdivorce #lifeduringdivorce #highconflict #coparenting
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People can sometimes say awkward or insensitive things to someone who is recently divorced, often without realizing the impact of their words. These types of comments, though often made with good intentions, can overlook the emotional complexity of divorce and make the person feel misunderstood or uncomfortable.

“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” — Mother Teresa

#wordsmatter #divorce #divorcesupport #whatnotsay #lifeafterdivorce #lifeduringdivorce #highconflictdivorce #separation #therapy #riseupcounselling #coparenting #bekind
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Strength doesn’t come from what you can do; it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn’t.

Going through a divorce can feel overwhelming, but here are some ways to stay strong through the process:

💪 Feel Your Emotions: It’s okay to feel sad, angry, or confused. Let yourself grieve, but don’t let these feelings define you.
💪 Lean on Your Support System: Don’t go through it alone. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can remind you of your strength.
💪 Prioritize Self-Care: Take time for yourself—whether it’s journaling, exercising, or simply resting. Rebuilding yourself starts with nurturing your mental and physical health.
💪 Focus on the Future: The end of one chapter is the beginning of a new one. Believe in the possibilities that lie ahead.
💪 Practice Self-Compassion: Be gentle with yourself. Healing takes time, but every small step forward is progress.

You are stronger than you think.

#DivorceSupport #StayStrong #Resilience #HealingJourney #SelfCareFirst #DivorceRecovery #MovingForward #riseupcounselling #therapy #divorce #seperationsupport
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